Monday, April 30, 2012

The Bridge and Aokigahara

This is a wonderful documentary that I watched recently which discusses suicides via the golden gate bridge. The documentary does contain some footage of actual suicides, so viewer discretion is advised. However, I believe that this movie was done as tastefully as possible, considering the subject matter. It is a heart-rending commentary on the mental state of some of the inhabitants of this country. I urge everyone to watch: it is pretty eye-opening on the topic of suicide.



Another great video which covers the same subject matter but in this instance the suicides take place at the base of Mount Fuji:



I don't know why I find the topic of suicide so fascinating. I would never do it, but I have been at that place in my life where I wanted to, several times. It is interesting to me to wonder exactly what the transition is between people who want to and people who do. What is the thought path that cements the will to end one's own life? What are each person's reasons for doing it, aside from not wanting to live? What was that final straw that pushed them past wanting to, and in to doing. Is it mental illness or do some people have a legitimate reason to end their own lives? I think the idea is totally false that everyone who is suicidal is mentally ill. Why is suicide usually viewed as the product of an illogical thought process? Why are the people who do it viewed as mentally disturbed? I know that some of them are. But sometimes I think that people just get tired of living. Perhaps tired of pain, or even tired of a monotonous life. Just because someone doesn't want to continue the struggle of trying to make their lives work, doesn't mean they're crazy or disturbed. They're just tired of it all, so very tired.

Some people say that suicide is "the coward's way out" and things like that. But is this true? Wouldn't everyone agree that inflicting pain and eventually death on onesself takes more courage than just about anything else in the world?

Another question I have is why do we all have a knee-jerk reaction when we hear that someone is suicidal? Why do we all think and say "No, dont!" without first contemplating the most important question: why do you feel this way? And then maybe thinking "what if they have a good reason?" Is there a good reason for killing onesself? What do you think? If people are the masters of their own lives, why shouldn't they be allowed to do what they want with it? Is our view of it simply us being scared of thinking about our own mortality? Is it our own fear of death speaking?

What about assisted suicide, perhaps to a terminal cancer patient, etc. Is that murder? If so, why? Isn't murder killing someone who does not want to die? If someone does want to die, then why would helping them be murder?

Please leave comments, I am anxious to hear what other people think about this topic.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

George is always appropriate in these cases...

I find this clip of George Carlin's views on death to be very appropriate, given my previous discussions on how people avoid acknowledging death via ridiculous means such as "communicating with the dead."


Enjoy. I know I do.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Suicide


I've been re-listening to George Carlin lately, and I stumbled across this particular video. It is Mr. Carlin discussing suicide. Totally regardless of the fact that he manages to make this very taboo subject funny, he also uses his scathing satire to point out that our seemingly "civilized" society still reverts to the brutal act of snuffing out one's own life.

Regardless of our abundance of technology, wealth, health, and "self-help" programs, some people are still sinking into a bottomless misery and are left by the way-side in our shallow, "politically correct" society.

This version of the video also has Romanian subtitles, so in addition to being enlightened by George, you can also learn a little Romanian!